
A fun little story - the day before Reagan's birthday (also the last day of college classes for Jason), we ate out at Red Robin to celebrate. Jason and I had decided on what to order, and I didn't even think twice that I would be telling our server that Reagan would have the "regular" for her - chicken strips. Yum.
Well, our server took our order and then looked at me and asked what Reagan would be having. Before I could speak, Reagan interrupted and said,
"Um...I will have the chicken nuggets."
Server: "Great! And what would you like with that?"
Reagan: "I'll have the fries."
Server: "And something to drink?"
Reagan: "I'll have lemonade." (Alright then! She knows what she wants!)
Then the server asked about Ember and, again, before I could answer,
Reagan: "I'll just share with my sister."
Glad she had that all figured out! We thought it was great that she ordered on her own, and even more special because she was turning 3 the next day. She is getting to be a big girl.
My little Reagy girl turned 3 at the beginning of the month. When I think of what I want to write here, I can't even begin to find the words to describe just how much I love her and the mom that she has helped me become. She has helped me love myself in ways that I could never even imagine, and I am forever grateful to her for teaching me so many things about parenting, life, and love.
Reagan has a vibrant passion for life that is unparalleled. She takes life head on and doesn't stop (literally, most days) for anything or anyone. Although this can be a challenge, I also love this about her. She is wonderfully stubborn, if that makes any sense. She knows who she is and is very confident in that. I find myself learning a lot from her sense of confidence and outgoing personality. She says it how it is, but has a way of doing so that is so sweet and innocent at the same time - this could mean trouble!
My girl is smart, and although I can take credit for a small portion of the things she knows, truth be told that most of it she just figures out on her own. She doesn't often let me be the teacher. Instead, she very elaborately explains every last detail of a book, movie, or what she needs me to do until I understand and do it right! I am often absolutely amazed by the things she remembers. She most definitely inherited her memory from Jason.
Reagan truly loves music. She loves to sing and loves to play the piano. She knows many primary songs and Disney princess songs from listening to music at night to help her fall asleep. She will break out into song at any given moment, no matter where we are. Sometimes I feel like I am in a musical - Reagan is the lead and I am a very small part. =) She has recently discovered her "fake vibrato" voice and isn't afraid to use it...much to our neighbor's delight/dismay. (I have yet to ask their opinion.)
She is also very loving. She gives her cuddles freely, and is never afraid to tell us how much she loves us. She is concerned when we are sad, and wants to know the reason behind every laugh. I love her for that.
She has recently really become more "in touch" with her spiritual side. I owe so much of this to her awesome nursery leaders and teachers at church. She has learned to recognize the spirit and tells me that she feels it "in her heart" when she hears a particular song, for instance, that rings true to her soul. She knows that it is the Holy Ghost and that it comes from heaven. There is nothing that brings me more joy than to know that she is beginning to understand these wonderful truths. My children are the closest thing I have to heaven, and Reagan plays a very important role in our family of bringing such a feeling of peace into our home.
Reagan has a big imagination. There are some days when she doesn't step out of "character" even once, and expects me to do the same. Sometimes, this big imagination gets the better of her. She has some pretty terrible night terrors that leave us both pretty shaken up a couple of nights a week. The line between what is real and what is fake is very thin for her, and I am constantly trying to figure out who I am supposed to be at any given moment. "Never a dull moment" would be quite the understatement!
She is my goofy girl and is always doing something to make us laugh - especially her sissy. Ember currently cannot get enough of Reagan and frankly, I don't blame her. She is a pretty special little girl and I am truly grateful to call her mine.