Grandpa Wilson
Grandpa Pratt (thanks Ernie for the picture!)

I feel very fortunate to have all four of my grandparents alive and living very close to me. Although I don't get to see them as much as I want to or should, I still love the time that I get to spend with them. I feel as though much of what they say is always profound enough to be written down in a book to be remembered forever. The advice they give is as precious as scripture to me. I can remember one time when I was maybe 16 years old, I was really struggling with a lot of things (oh, the dramatic life of a 16 year old!), particularly my self-worth and the way other people treated me and felt about me. I was in desperate need of a Priesthood blessing, and my dad was out of town on business. Actually, it was right around when September 11th happened, because I remember he was stuck in Florida, unable to fly out. I was distraught and felt very alone. My mom had the idea to call my grandpa Pratt. Without any hesitation, he was over at our house, sitting next to me, arm around me, and having what he would call a "hearts to hearts."
In the Pratt family, "hearts to hearts" is a tradition that I cherish with...well,all my heart! When we were little, all the grand kids would scurry to gather on Grandma and Grandpa Pratt's big water bed with the silky blue quilt. My grandpa would call out "whoever's last is a dooflunkie!" Now, I don't know any better now than I did then what a "dooflunkie" is, but I do know that I never hope to find out! When we were all cuddled up on the bed, Grandma and Grandpa Pratt would hug us and tell us stories of when they were growing up and we would wiggle and giggle to our heart's content. I have very fond memories of these "hearts to hearts" and sometimes, when I'm lucky, I still get to have this special time with Grandpa and Grandpa Pratt, only this time it's usually more personal, because I don't think their water bed could handle all of us cousins all grown up anymore!
That night when Grandpa came over to visit and to give me a blessing, I poured my heart out to him. There were lots of tears on my part, but my grandpa sat there through it all, hugging me and telling me everything would be alright. He used that situation to bear his testimony of the Savior to me, and I remember very vividly, for the first time in my life,
really beginning to understand the Atonement and the love the Savior had for me. My grandpa gave me a very profound blessing that night. To this day, I remember little of what was actually said, but I do remember the way I felt. I have never felt so immediately calm and at peace in my entire life than I did at that moment, sitting in that chair in the middle of the room, my grandpa's worn but strong hands placed upon my head. Whenever I am having a hard day or am in a difficult situation, I still remember that almost tangible feeling of loneliness and pain leaving almost immediately and being replaced with love and warmth. I remember feeling that I was not alone, nor would I ever be alone, and that it was up to me to turn to the Savior for comfort. I have used the lesson I learned that night time and time again throughout my life.
Today, we received a letter in the mail from Jason's Grandpa Wilson, explaining to us the importance of paying our tithing and being prayerful in these sometimes difficult financial times. It was a seemingly simple letter, but it touched our hearts to have his testimony written out, allowing us the opportunity to read it over and over. It made me realize how wise grandparents really are, and prompted me to record my thoughts somewhere so that I would be able to remember the deep impact having faithful grandparents has had on my life and the lives of my family.
Three of Jason's grandparent's have passed on, and I knew two of them only briefly, but Jason still shares stories about them with me, and through those stories I feel as though I do know them, and am incredibly grateful for the example that they set for us and our children.